Ben & I got married on the night before Thanksgiving, November 21, 2012. The weather was perfection and my bridal party were so excited to receive their beautiful Luella robes. Even better, my oldest guy friend, a bridesman, received a “scarf” of the Luella trim to match us. Although he preferred to wear it as a head scarf, I was so thrilled that Sara was able to accommodate my requests to allow my entire bridal party (bridesman included) to feel so special and match each other. I enjoyed wearing my Lilian robe as I got ready to marry my high school sweetheart and on our romantic honeymoon in Costa Rica.
Last week, when asked what I would like for my impending birthday, the first things that came to mind were a Clarisonic face brush and La Mer skin cream. The requests were not a result of a mid-30s freakout. I’m not ashamed to admit it, I am a self-professed product junkie and I always have been.
Starting at age nine, I was the co-founder and head of a fashion and beauty club called the “Silver Swans.” One had to take a written test to see if they “passed” and could join our club. It wasn’t as snooty as it sounds—as we (the club members) sincerely wanted to “help” other fourth graders.
When I was ten I would use the mud at the bottom of the polluted camp lake to make facial mud masks. I convinced several other campers that that when the mud dried, it would “pull out” impurities from the skin. I wanted to bottle it up and sell it before the camp dances (early signs of a budding entrepreneur), but I didn’t have the proper containers.
By eleven I was administering full-blown makeovers. The “Cher Horowitz” in me couldn’t help myself. My “projects” were usually willing volunteers in the form of other Junior High students.
At fourteen I nearly scrubbed my face raw when trying out different exfoliators and my obsession with beauty and fashion magazines was getting a little worrisome. As I grew older, an increase in money and a decrease in parental supervision only helped fuel the expansion of my ever-growing product collection and experimentation with new beauty services.
In college I felt that I had almost gone too far, when I had a mild panic attack while doused in seaweed, wrapped in saran wrap, and left to “bake” in a “salon” that was really just a random room in someone’s home that was being used for various spa treatments.
I’ve never been particularly upset with my appearance but I have always loved a great “before and after” and the promise that comes from an over-packaged shiny new product. I have yet to venture into the land of Botox, but Latisse is my new best friend and I take Jean Godfrey-June’s word as Gospel. So when a friend asked me for my advice about which products or services to use leading up to her wedding, I thought (in the words of Barney Stinson), “Challenge Accepted!”
As any woman who has ever turned on the TV or opened a beauty magazine knows, the possibilities for achieving flawless skin seem endless—the only limiting factors are time and money. Below I have broken down three paths to what I believe are ways to achieve the best skin possible.
Paycheck to Paycheck
For a girl on a budget, the quickest and least expensive way to see some changes (less fine lines, fewer blemishes) is with a prescription for Tretinoin Cream .025% (aka Retin-A). This cannot be bought over the counter and you must obtain a script from your dermatologist. I reccommend using a pea sized amount, every other night, mixed with a mild drug store bought moisturizer (I like Alba). And should some “spots” arrive, use Neosporin (yes, I said Neosporin) on them until they disappear. It may feel oily but it kills bacteria and prevents any scars from forming– genius!
A Little Splurge
Oh La Mer, how I covet thee! I have yet to try this “magic” formula myself, but I can actually tell when my friends have. My friend Eva showed up to a hike the other day with luminous skin– I noticed the difference right away. When I asked her about it she said it was La Mer. This was the second time that I saw a noticeable change in a friend’s skin due to la Mer.
If someone were to hand me a couple thousand dollars, I would like to say that I would pass it on to charity or save it for rent, but most likely you would find me at the Kate Somerville clinic, in Los Angeles, getting weekly DermaLucent light therapy facials. I was at an engagement party last year and I met a woman with the most perfect skin I had ever seen in real life. It seriously looked airbrushed. When I told her that I don’t think I had ever seen skin so amazing, she laughed and said “you should have seen it before– horrible!” She showed me a photo as proof. I couldn’t believe it! Her secret? The Kate Somerville Omnilux series. This service uses the DermaLucent light therapy as well as clarifying facials. These LED lights can wipe out anything from skin acne and redness, to fine lines. If you don’t live in Los Angeles, have no fear because these treatments can be found at other clinics, just ask for LED lights.
If I were really going to go for it, I would also get an IPL (Intense Pulsed Light) to make my sun spots disappear. But be forewarned, this treatment requires a few days of “social downtime” after. Meaning that you might feel OK, but it is possible that you will look like a monster as the dark spots on your face will become even darker before scabbing and falling off. However once they do… Voila, flawless skin!
“Rob and I were married in Longview Baptist Church in Olive Branch, MS on June 8th, 2013. I had five absolutely wonderful bridesmaids that mean the world to me. I wanted to get them something fun and unique. I found the robes through pintrest and absolutely loved them. I wanted something they weren’t expecting, could use again and that would remind them of time we shared. We spent all morning lounging in our matching robes, getting our hair and make up done. Everyone looked so cute and was so comfy. My bridesmaids and my husband love them!!! I would recommend them to any bride.”
“I got married on October 6 at Castleton Farms outside Knoxville Tennessee. My husband and I dreamed of a fall mountain wedding and being from Chicago Castleton was the most convenient, but also the most breathtaking location! Giving we had a destination wedding I wanted to get my bridesmaids, mother of the groom and my mom something extra special for getting ready on the big day. These were the perfect robes and the girls (including my mom and the mother of the groom) LOVED them! We stayed at the beautiful manor on the property the night before the wedding and it was the perfect thing to put on the next morning as we started the day. A big thanks to Sara for her help in designing these one of a kind robes for me and my girls. I will remember this very special day every time I wear my robe.”
“I got married on October 6, 2012 at the crossings in carlsbad, ca. I wanted to get my bridesmaids something special and something they could use after the wedding, and these robes were perfect! They were so soft, comfortable, and flattering on everyone! While we were hanging out eating and getting our hair and make up done, we also got some great memorable photos. That time I got to spend with all of my closest friends really helped keep me calm before walking down the aisle. And now I have a keepsake that I can actually use from my wedding day! I highly recommend the doie lounge robes, you and your bridesmaids will love them!”
~ Kiersten R., married on 10.6.12, in Carlsbad, CA
I woke up to a great surprise this morning– a gorgeous piece of press about our robes from One Wed, entitled “The Fine Art Of Getting Ready.” This post was written by wedding dress designer extraordinaire, Amy-Jo Tatum. I’m hoping to do a Q & A with Amy-Jo sometime soon. Stayed tuned for that!
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in the baby carriage…hopefully it’s an eco-friendly, lead and BPA-free carriage! Today my interview is with the founder of the blog, “Little Green Moments,” a practical guide to raising a toxin-free, happy & healthy family. This blog is a valuable resource for everyone, not just those with kids.
When did you start Little Green Moments (LGM)?
We launched October 29th, 2012, right before the November election.
Why did you start LGM?
I started LGM to provide a forum to share important information with friends and community around practical ways to live a non-toxic lifestyle; everything ranging from an organic and non-GMO diet, to reducing exposure to household, environmental, and digital toxins. I wanted one place to marry green and eco-friendly living with non-toxic living (essentially, what’s best for the environment and what’s best for our children).
When I was pregnant with my first child, I became hyperaware of what I was putting into my body and what long term effects my choices in diet would have on this baby. I started researching the health effects of exposure to plastics (BPA and phthalates), pesticides, hormones (rBGH), antibiotics, mercury in fish, and other neurotoxins on pregnant and nursing women. The knowledge I gleaned prompted gradual behavioral change; I began to overhaul my lifestyle. Two years later, pregnant with my second child, I took it even further to research how my lifestyle choices would affect this baby; seemingly mundane choices such as which shampoo, sunscreen, linens, paint, carpet, mattresses, and even which nail polish to use. I dug deeper and found astounding results. This also came on the heels of the November 2012 election and CA’s Prop 37, which would require labeling of Genetically Modified Foods (GMOs), something I was strongly in favor of. Once I had gathered all of this information, I felt a responsibility to share it and to help to get the word out; especially, since companies like Monsanto and Dupont were pouring millions of dollars into negative ad campaigns providing consumers with misinformation around the value of labeling our food and making our own choices for our families. I believe there is a strong correlation between all of these chemicals, endocrine disruptors and toxins we are exposed to (many, in utero) and the growing cases of ADHD, asthma, autism, obesity, cancer, and early onset of puberty. I wanted to shout it out from the top of a mountain with a megaphone. I felt a sense of urgency.
The general acceptance and tolerance of these toxins is so ingrained into the fabric of our society that it will take many years to first recognize, then unwind, and ultimately try to fix. I’m not going to wait. Undoubtedly, we have a long way to go. Politicians don’t touch this stuff. Media barely does. And so I wrote my first post. It was a piece on GMOs and I wanted to get the conversation going. I wanted to educate, but keep it approachable. I didn’t want to preach or proselytize, but rather connect with my readers and earn their trust as a source of credible information. It can be a fine line and I felt a grave sense of responsibility to provide extremely accurate, well-cited, non-emotional, scientific data. We were (are) living a non-toxic lifestyle in a non-toxic house (after a remodel using as many green and eco-friendly options as possible), started raising chickens for organic farm-fresh eggs, and eating primarily fresh, unprocessed, organic, local, and seasonal food. And the blog was launched. I want to inspire our readers to make at least ONE digestible change, and then maybe another…after all, it is called, “Little Green Moments” and not “Little Green All Of The Time.”
Who are your major environmental “heroes” or influences?
My Dad. Through years of annual backpacking trips in the Sierras, he instilled a strong foundation for me to appreciate and love being outdoors and in the mountains, and the importance of nurturing our planet. Growing up, he would always (and still does) save important newspaper clippings for me with relevant environmental topics. He’s a Prius-driving environmentalist through and through. We grew up in a household that recycled, re-used, and reduced.
My 2.5 year old and 8 month old daughters. They inspire me everyday to maintain a non-toxic home and life. I continue to hone my cooking skills for them and to provide clean and chemical-free meals.
My husband, an avid fly fisherman whose love of the outdoors is unparalleled, is also an influence. I continue to hone my cooking skills also for him as well (and he has a very discerning palate, so this is a fun challenge!).
Ken Cook, President of the Environmental Working Group is an invaluable source of information.
Robyn O’Brien, author of “The Unhealthy Truth”– a true crusader in the food revolution.
What’s the one major thing that people can do to help make their homes/lives “safer” (environment-wise)?
It’s hard, if not impossible, to distill it down to only one change. It’s all of the small (and, of course, large) bite-size changes that we can make in our lifestyle and homes that have cumulative long-term effects on our health. There are many factors at play. I would advise starting with reducing or eliminating exposure to endocrine disruptors (found in plastics, sunscreens, shampoo, pesticides, etc.). Endocrine disruptors are synthetic chemicals that are absorbed into the body and mimic hormones, which can disrupt the body’s normal functions. Start small: pledge to no longer drink out of disposable plastic water bottles. You help the environment and avoid ingesting BPA (an endocrine disruptor) that has been leached into the water from the plastic bottle. LGM has a Non-Toxic Diet Guide and a Non-Toxic Household Guide that provide 20 suggestions to start getting chemicals out of your daily life.
How do you constantly come up with new information?
I read everyday. I have a backlog of at least 20 topics that I want to write about, so there is no shortage of information, only a shortage of time and sleep! I process information when I’m out on hikes or while I’m in the shower. At this time in my life, those are really the only times my mind is free to wander and really think through things.
Did you always care about the environment and worry about toxic living?
I have always cared about the environment, from a very young age, again thanks to my dad. But being an environmentalist doesn’t always equate to clean and non-toxic living. You can use reusable grocery bags, backpack in the mountains without leaving anything behind but footprints, use a governor in your shower to conserve water, and drive an electric car, but that won’t protect you from arsenic in rice, neurotoxins in your apples, hormone disruptors in your sunscreen, or lead in your balsamic vinegar. These are things you have to research for yourself, become aware of, and take action to protect your family. Rarely does a doctor tell a pregnant woman to avoid these chemicals, even though they have been definitively linked to adverse health effects in babies and small children. Many of these toxic chemicals are found in newborns and in breast milk.
Taking care of our environment and taking care of our health and the health of our children are not always part and parcel, although there is often an overlap. I have always had a general “awareness” of non-toxic living, but nothing powerful enough to drive a consistent change in my behavior (what I ate or the products I used) until I had children and until two people extremely close to me developed cancer. Boom. Something had to change. In my early twenties, I had a roommate who only ate organic food; and, although I always gave her a nod of appreciation and listened to her rationale (seemed cogent enough), I never felt compelled to follow suit. I didn’t yet have the internal motivating factors needed to initiate change. She was far ahead of the game; and I simply thought she was “alternative” and that it just didn’t quite fit my lifestyle, or budget for that matter. A lot of it also comes down to your support system and the people you surround yourself with. If non-toxic living is high on their priority list too, it’s incredibly helpful to have your immediate community all singing from the same song sheet; think: organic and clean food dinner parties!
You have two kids under 3 yrs old– how do you find the time to research and write?
In all honesty, it wasn’t an ideal time to take on a new project. We have an infant, a super active toddler, and two chickens. There are endless house projects in sight, I cook 98% of our meals at home, and there are many competing priorities throughout each day. However, when you’re passionate about something, you somehow make time. It’s tricky since I don’t want to take away precious time from my children and I’m cognizant about not having them always see me on my computer or looking at my phone (it’s all about parental modeling, right?). When I’m with them, I’m focused on them and we’re typically outside playing, reading, cooking, or cuddling and phones are out of sight. Undivided attention is invaluable and it’s easy to be a “distracted” parent with so much technology and “stuff to do.” Early morning, naps, during some post-nap independent play, or after we put the girls to bed are really the only times I have to write, which doesn’t leave a tremendous amount of time, since I also like to enjoy a glass of wine and catch-up time with my husband (and go to bed with a clean house). At times, I’m not able to open my computer for days; and that’s okay. If I do serendipitously find a chunk of time, and the dishwasher has already been emptied, I’ll try to write a few posts to have in a queue. My sister, Maya, is also a contributing author from Washington D.C. and provides thoughtful content and delicious recipes. If I find an interesting blog post that someone else has written, I will try to synthesize it, add some editorial, and then post it under the author’s name. Information is information and although I’m discriminating in my sources, I don’t need to claim credit for empowering information. The whole point is to get more people talking about this important topic and to ignite real change in Washington.
What does 2013 hold for LGM?
Since the blog is still in its infancy, I have simple wishes for 2013 – content, content, content. I would like to see a steady and consistent stream of informative and well-researched (and validated) content that makes it easy for pregnant women and new moms to make practical changes to their lifestyles. Most importantly, I want to get to know our readers to understand where people need the most support in creating healthier, non-toxic homes and to help empower our readers to facilitate change. A green revolution is brewing.